The Road Of Life
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| LIFE OFFERS A LOT .TAKE ONLY THE BEST |
People As "Life Objects"
Out of all the life objects lets focus on people,since that group
of “life objects” affects our life more than anything else.
Some people will be good to experience,some people will leave you
with an unpleasant after- experience.As you walk along the road of life you are
likely to encounter both kind of people,pleasant and unpleasant.
What Do You
Choose To Do With People?
Now what do you do?Do you decide to make your life a reservoir of
memories of good experiences with pleasant people,their actions,their words?Do
you determine to keep up association with more such people,and bless them for
their goodness?
Funnily instead,do you decide
to enter the helpless victim category? Do you do choose to build a huge pool of
unpleasant memories out of experiences with negative people?And choose that to
cloud your expectations of future encounters with other people?
The Fallout Of
Your Own Choices
One choice,and the habitual attitudes originating from there,can bring
you increasing amounts of happiness,simplicity,confidence,love,peace,and
fulfillment.The other choice will, sooner than later,bring you deeper levels of dissatisfaction,dissonance,complicated
thinking,suspicious attitudes towards others,and low confidence.
That Supremely Mysterious Law
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| YOUR JOY IS YOUR JOB |
Surprisingly you will also notice that as you habituate yourself
to recall good memories,you will begin to expect better things in future as
well.And by the Supremely Mysterious Law you will most definitely begin attracting
more and more good experiences into your life.
The corollary is that no one is responsible for our state of mind
but ourselves.That is why you can never fix the blame for your own wrong
thinking and negative attitudes on other people.The more you blame,and accuse
others for your own moods,emotions,and attitudes, the further you drift away
from yourself;and truth.
Consider Your
Responsibility
1.Negative Thinking.Negative
thinking is always the manner in which you are employing your own thoughts and
opinions.Not someone else’s handiwork.
2. Feel Good About
Yourself. The better you feel about yourself the closer you are to the
truth,and the more likely are you to be happy,confident, fulfilled,and
unruffled by others’ behavior or beliefs.
3. Importance Of Insignificant Or Significant People. Without
doubt you have in your life some people who’s opinion or behaviors you consider
insignificant to your happiness.Now if you can be emotionally unaffected by the "insignificant" people in your life,surely you can extend that logic to those supposedly
very significant lot as well.Remember we
are aiming to attain personal emotional mastery.Not outwitting any one.
5. Change Your Thoughts.
Make an effort to change your thoughts for the better.Then keep them changed.All
positive thoughts have a beneficial effect.
4 comments:
Wonderful post Mona. You are talking my talk! :) Our thoughts are creating everything in our life. Choosing what we are going to think about our relationships, work, children and ourselves is the difference between feeling good or feeling lousy! It's all up to us. Hard at times to be accountable, but once we start down the road of owning our thoughts and feelings and the results is the most empowering journey!
Thank you for sharing this!!
Thanks Karen,
Your acknowledgement counts.
I endorse what you say about thoughts running our lives,completely.With passage of time the manifestation of thought entities becomes more and more apparent in our lives.Only we have to be a little conscious of this phenomenon.
I appreciate the path breaking work you are doing through your books and your site.
Is there any e zine,or newsletter available from your site?Since your project is so close to my own approach to life,i'm interested to get some regular inputs from you.
Thanks
Mona
Mona, our thoughts indeed create our life so we need to be careful about them.
The way to start changing them is to become more conscious about our thoughts. Only when we can see what our mind produces can we start changing them to thoughts which serve us better..I agree with you - changing our thoughts is the first step to living a more fulfilling life.
Hi Vishnu,
Yest that's very true our thoughts do make alot of difference to our realities.
The more we manufacture the thought software the more it manifests into our reality.
Thought combined with emotion and feeling is a very potent manifesting force.
Thanks for your insight
Happy Diwali
Mona
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