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Tuesday, 4 June 2013

Self Growth Happens Effortlessly When You Pop The Question

Am I Growing?
Be committed to your personal growth at all times.

The fact of life is that you can outsource everything else in life but you just cannot outsource your growth to any one else.You alone are responsible ,and capable of growing stronger.Yourself. No one else,and nothing else can do that for you.Yes some things,and some people outside of you might only inspire you to grow,they might set an example for you,they might advise you.All that is quite plausible.But can they grow for you in your place?Can they get your red blood corpuscles growing?

Obvious. Isn't it?

Yes it is obvious.Yet a lot of us keep waiting for some other big stimulus to come along in life and goad us to start growing one fine morning.Well it doesn't happen that way at all.What you simply need is a bit of discrimination,a lot of commitment,a bit of objectivity,a lot of patience,and dollops of humour. This just about sets right the environment for growth.

There is,besides, another vital ingredient which you need for personal growth.What's That?

More than any thing else you need tons of questions on your menu card.Questions are the appetizers of self growth.Unfortunately for many the question doesn't arise of asking questions.It is absolutely critical to question yourself.You may certainly feel great about being able to provide all answers,always.Yet what about asking some relevant questions?It's a funny thing about life that for some people decades and years pass before some thing new strikes them,and that only happens when you question.

Questions accelerate your self growth.

However.

This questioning comes at a cost.And that is your comfort.Something that very few of us like to lose.

Yet if you're the adventurous kind,you don't hesitate.You just go right ahead and ask yourself this first question,"what does personal growth mean to me?".Then,"do i need to grow any further than where i am now?","What am i doing,or not doing to grow further in life"

Most importantly,"is personal growth required at all?"

That OK for starters?


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