Why Giving A Second Chance Is Important

Reach Out for That Second Chance

My friend walked into his doc's clinic and came out after a while, perturbed.He had been diagnosed with something serious,which he chose not to disclose.But he sure was affected by the verdict.He was upset because he trusted his physician and knew his word was good.Yet since the aftereffect, on his peace of mind, was not good enough we suggested he take a second opinion.He relented after some persuasion.Surprisingly he was given an all clear by the next expert doc to look him up.He couldn't help celebrating his relief for days afterwards.

Too often we get stuck with old biases,with obsolete judgement, and fail to give ourselves a second chance.

We don't give second chances to others either.

Righteousness Is A Block

We suffer needlessly,where a little extra courage could deliver a vastly different reality to experience.We hesitate to re-approach the same situation from a different side.Righteousness overtakes well being and commonsense.Usually stubborn minds stumble even where there is no obstacle.Unwillingness to seek an alternative view is an internal roadblock.

You Owe It To Yourself

On the path of self improvement you owe it to yourself to give, and take a second chance.Its one of  life's greatest gifts you can offer yourself.So what if you fumbled once?So what if someone else has not given you a fair deal?What do you do?

Give a second chance.Consider yourself strong enough to do that.

Cosmic Adjustments

The entire cosmos moves forward through constant adjustments.These "small-change" moves are evolutionary in effect.And it is only possible through open gateways.That is a strong reason to keep your doors open.Offering a second chance is like opening a gate.For growth,for change,for improvement and for fulfilment at every turn on life's meandering road.

Nothing is Static

Nothing is meant to remain static and absolute in the universe.Because that is a straight route to decay and disintegration.You,as a creative,intelligent  human being ,are responsible to contribute your bit to the growth of the universe.

And to yourself.

So give a second chance.

Let go.Pardon.Forgive.Smile.Release the past baggage.Extend a handshake once again.Do something good despite someone $%#@ .Stop expecting rudeness/negativity (yes that's a second chance too).Stop focusing  only on faults;in people,in things,in yourself.Stop remembering all the ##$$%%#   of the past.

Decide A Time Limit

If this is difficult to follow constantly, then at least decide to give a second chance for a short while.Maybe one single day of second chances;to start with.Then extend this period to one week of second chances.Its just a matter of time before it becomes second nature.Eventually you give yourself a second chance to fulfill yourself,to enjoy life,to encourage,and inspire to others.You gain immeasurable confidence through your sheer strength of persistence.

The gains you make through your second chances are not only material,but mental and spiritual as well.

Second chances make you stronger ,in the long run.So give a second chance to your erring neighbour ,and to your kids,and to your spouse.Remember you deserve one too!!

I'd be happy to hear your thoughts on second chances..