There comes a time in a person's life when he realises that life is not just putting on years,growing older
or ageing .Life is a lot about "growing up" .And there's a world of difference between growing older and growing up.By the way this phrase "growing up"is often misconstrued and narrowly placed in context of children or adolescents only.This is a fallacy ,because a person is meant to grow throughout life.Now growing up is all about adding value to your inner self;the self which is your deep inner compass throughout your Earthly sojourn.Rather ,you don't add value but you extract value from your inner self....provided you're in contact with it.How you do that is another question,and we all need to find our unique answers for it.