Learning Starts From Where Blaming Terminates

Blaming and learning are diametrically opposed.One who blames can never learn,so long as the blame continues.One who is open to learning does not stop in his tracks to blame.Blaming blocks a lot of useful energy.Energy that can be usefully directed to learning how to resolve issues.

Aha! You Are The One Responsible For My Mess

Blaming is a weak man's sport.It finds fulfillment in lower level energies;judging,criticising,comparing,denouncing, belittling, and conflict.

Learners Are Leaders

Learning,however,opens up a multitude of plausible options.It finds fulfillment in higher level energy;growth achievement,contribution,emancipation,synergy,and harmony.Learning terminates in strength.Blaming ends in disintegration.Learning can replace blaming at any point in time,and that moment onward growth of the individual and society commences.

What differentiates the leaders from the stragglers is the ability to learn and the discipline to stop blaming others and other things.Learning is a leadership trait.Blaming is a losers trait.Both are far different in their after effects as well.At the end of a session of blaming you are left feeling lousy(and for some folks the blaming session  never ends, lifelong).At the end of a period of learning you come out feeling empowered and much more centered and in control.Blaming has short term,and perceived,benefits only.Learning has long term,and real life,dividends.

Blamers try to absolve.Learners always resolve.

So what do you intend doing about your errors and slip ups in life?

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