Believe in yourself!
Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but
reasonable confidence in
your own powers you cannot be successful
or happy.
- Norman Vincent Peale
Encourage
Yourself
Your
whole life until this moment has been a series of
interactions,tasks,actions,responsibilities, and circumstances.You have come
through a lot.You have gained some and you have lost some.Yet strength invites
you to consistently focus on what you have gained,what you have achieved,what
you have accomplished,what you have contributed,what you have triumphed at,and
what you have enjoyed.When you only focus on the best in your past you open up
a pathway for furthermore fantastic experiences to unravel throughout your
life.You do this through the magnetic force of attraction.More than that ,at
the material and mental level ,you encourage yourself through every episode of
positive focus.You gain courage from counting your successes,and your
victories.You encourage yourself.Self encouragement is the vitamin for successful
people.So keep counting your winning scores.
Face
It
Whatever
life demands from you must be done anyway.You cannot wish away essential
responsibilities.Somethings must be done by you, and you alone.So what is the
point wishing otherwise.Eventually ,you know you will have to do it.And it may
then happen at a cost you may not like to pay.So the sane thing is to take the
bull by the horns and meet the situation more than half way.
What
is it that you are avoiding really?Meeting new people? Meeting old
friends?Taking on new tasks,new responsibilities?Travelling out somewhere in
the interest of your career,or business?Learning some new skill?Taking those
phone calls,or answering those emails at work?Facing differences of opinion
with co-workers or boss?Meeting that demanding client?Starting out on that
exercise or diet regimen?Doing this,or that?Has it become a habit to shrink
from work and responsibility?How is this trait ultimately contributing to your
leadership-success-index?
You
know what?Every time you meet a task,responsibility,or circumstance boldly you
grow taller by many an inch.You are taller in strength,in confidence,in
composure,and in your self assurance in meeting,and accomplishing challenging
tasks.These challenges are the “workstations” in your life’s “gym”.You can work
out there and strengthen your muscles,or you can lay there passively, feeling
justified in your irritation and dislike towards them.Finally you are
the one who gets to choose,either way.
Be A
Self Starter & Reach Out
Be an
initiator of things.Take action first.Commit yourself to this transformation.Do
not keep waiting for circumstances to get perfect.It is better to start off
doing something,however imperfect it may be initially,than to keep delaying
your project indefinitely.Also,don’t postpone things because you don’t want to
take long in completing it .Someone put it very aptly though,“don’t put
off doing something simply because it will take a long time to show results.The
time will pass off anyway”.So start doing things promptly and see how your
confidence and strength rise.
Stay
Connected With Your Ability
You
go to the drugstore and buy an aspirin over the counter because you have enough
confidence in its ability to banish your ailment.You don’t question its
efficacy even a tad bit.But what about your own ability,and your confidence in
meeting life,people,work,responsibilities,tasks,aspirations,and the world at
large?
It’s
okay to place some confidence in your own abilities.In fact place a lot of
confidence in your abilities.Believe in your ability to answer that
mail,that phone call. Believe that you can differ with your
associates,friends,spouse,or relatives and still remain cordial and composed.If
other people can do certain things and yet remain calm and in control so can
you.Bring yourself in contact with your inner confidence.Stay connected with it
.More than that,send this inner power and confidence ahead of you in whatever
you do in life.Stay ahead of your challenges ,at least within your inner center
of power.Your external tasks and responsibilities,challenges and problems
are not half as powerful as you.Eventually you will amaze
yourself as you grow strong in doing and achieving much more than you
ever dreamt.
Persevere
Stay
motivated to always increase your self power under all circumstances.Building
your confidence is your greatest responsibility.So continue to meet life from a
centre of strength and confidence.No power can deter you if you are personally
committed to doing well on this front.Know that you have the inner potential to
imagine your desire and to materialize it.So dream of the highest and reach out
to achieve it with your persistent action.
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