WHAT IS "LITSTBL" REALLY

 LITSTBL .It is truly said that  “life is too short to be little”( LITSTBL).In the innumerable experiences of life there are bound to be ups and downs. This happens in relationships also. In fact life is a series of experiences and relationships. Many people will enter and exit your life and along with them they will bring connected vibes-pleasant or unpleasant.Yet this does not detract us from the fact that life has countless good experiences to offer,countless pleasant relationships to offer,pleasant days to offers small gifts, charming smiles,pleasant whiffs, triumphs, celebrations, little and big victories and endless other lovable moments.Why ,then can we not reconcile with someone ,make peace with someone;just remembering that when there our life is too short even  to love everyone we meet how can we afford to resent and dislike people we meet in our life?How can we afford to belittle life?

.Offer help. What we don’t realise is is that  people are constantly seeking assistance, seeking help,and finding ways of doing this faster.Everybody wants to do less and achieve more,and its absolutely justified because it’s the hallmark of efficiency-do less achieve more.The only catch here is how do you find a tool for conflict resolution,which assists your efforts in patching up fast. You’re foxed at times like these,when you know you have to do it ,but how?Just smile ,walk up to your friend and chat them up.And remember to keep your baggage aside when you do this .Just a as you need help,so do they.You can be the one to offer it-with just a smile.

.Biblical Advice To Forgive.it needs no greater emphasis than what has been explicitly stated.Unlike automated machines which work on predictable electric or mechanical impulses,humans are continuously enveloped by a  fluctuating cloud of subjectivity.This colours judgement and  decision making .With a bit of detached examination you can find it easier to forgive the erring human who has shared even a moment of you lifetime.

.Relate To The Moment of Conflict.Try to find out ,try to analyse why the conflict happened in the first place.Maybe there indeed was some thing that you missed noticing that precipitated the conflict. What this analysis does is to give  you an insight into the mechanics of a circumstance and the possible outcomes with the same person.Give it  a moment of thought,you really can empathise with someone much better in hindsight.So just relate yourself  to the perceived provocation.Perhaps this will open the doorway for  “softening” your heart